The full meaning of besty and it's side effects in this present generation.

Fornications has been modified into the modern day 'Bestie' filth. It in other words mean best friends, and it usually occurs between two opposite genders who believe that as a result of their mutual compatibility, they should become best friends without the intention of marriage.They call and chat often, they exchange secrets and confide on each other things they don't even relate to their families.
we should not be doing things just to impress people or opposite sex around us and never fear or feel afraid when it comes to true, no matter how close or Infront you're with highly respected man/woman or people from such aristocratic parentage, ultimately God Will save you and your offspring as time went on, many trials and calamity can be encounter in the process but all what you need is patience with endurance,


Hence, this is nothing but nonsense, if you both are truly so perfect for each other, then why not get married? This shows that the friendship is nothing but pretence and deception 

No matter what that boy ask you to do, think twice and make sure it's doesn't transgress the saying of your religion. And remember always uphold good character and conduct, be good and kind-hearted even if they aren't. 


Islam doesn't permit any form of special closeness or friendship between two opposite genders, because it will inevitable involve Zina of the tongue, the hands, the legs, the eyes and that of the private parts on the long run. The only form of friendship allowed is from your fellow gender, not an opposite gender. Allah has given us blood brothers and sisters through our family ties, they should be your real best friends. Even if you are a lonely child, find solace in your peers. Islam doesn't allow any form of discussion between a strange man and a strange women except for an extremely genuine need.

Your so called bestie ( best friend) knows everything about you:

He knows when you are menstruating and when you are clean.

He knows your various weekly hairstyles

He knows your birthday.

 He knows your deepest feminine secrets.


He knows your family secrets.

He knows about all your suitors.

You even share your Hijab and off-hijab pictures with him because you trust him.

You make video calls with him.

You share voice messages with him.

You chat with him till midnight.

You go places with him and he acts like a super man.

Most teenage girls were betrayed and dis Virgin by these male who act as a super man to his victim but are actually wolves looking for a perfect time to devour its prey.


May Allah save us from fornications and it's tragedy.

  HINTS ON HOW TO SAVE YOURSELF 

 GUARD YOUR OBLIGATION.

It is obligatory upon you that you guard the obligations of Islam and the duty of the deen with complete adherence, especially the obligatory Salah (prayers), for verily the Salah is a protection for you from evil and falsehood. Indeed the Salah will incite you to perform goodness and refer for you from evil and falsehood.

 BE CAREFUL OF INTERNET.

It is obligatory upon youth that you be very wary of the mediums that attack the youth from within, especially from the internet, to ensure the well-being of your religion and your life affairs, and well-being is very priceless.

BE CLOSE TO THE SCHOLAR.

It's upon you that you become close to the People of Knowledge or the Senior Scholars, listen to their words, seek guidance from their fatwas, take benefit from their knowledge, consult them on important issues.

ENGAGE IN DU'AS.

 Engage more in du’as (supplications) towards Allah Almighty, so that He will make you stand firm upon the truth and upon guidance, and protect you from evil and destruction. For certainly du’as are the keys to every good in this world and in the hereafter.

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